Monday - 12/24/07 - Phone Convo: Jonah and Celia

cissysaidso (1:32:14 PM): *rings*
bunsofsteelbear (1:33:36 PM): *a bright little boy's voice answers* Hello this is daddy's phone, who is calling can i take a message? *in the background Jonah speaks, laughing: Archer, you in daddy's stuff again?*
cissysaidso (1:34:28 PM): Hi Archer! This is Celia. Your daddy has told me a lot about you.
bunsofsteelbear (1:39:49 PM): Hi Ceeela how are you? *Jonah in bg: Gimme the phone, Archer....*
cissysaidso (1:40:37 PM): I'm good! How are you? Having a nice Christmas so far?
bunsofsteelbear is available (1:54:24 PM)
bunsofsteelbear (1:56:00 PM): Yeah., Mom got me lots of stuff. *Archer. This is Daddy's call*
cissysaidso (1:59:28 PM): That's awesome! You will have to tell me all about it sometime, but your daddy sounds like maybe he's getting a little upset so you might should give him the phone and then maybe we can talk later, okay?
bunsofsteelbear (2:00:57 PM): Okay... DADDY CEELA ON PHONE!
bunsofsteelbear (2:02:34 PM): *scuffle, Jonah telling him to go see Mommy and various kisses goodbye.* Hello? Celia?
cissysaidso (2:02:48 PM): Hey handsome.
bunsofsteelbear (2:03:01 PM): *chuckles* hey
cissysaidso (2:03:10 PM): Are you having a good time?
bunsofsteelbear (2:03:37 PM): Ah... you could say that.
cissysaidso (2:03:55 PM): That's...good? *laughs*
bunsofsteelbear (2:04:08 PM): It's complicated...
cissysaidso (2:04:33 PM): Oh. *pause* Do you wanna talk about it?
bunsofsteelbear (2:05:31 PM): It's just a mad house here.... *pauses as there are voices in the background* Hold on - *Aside* None of your business! *comes back on* Okay.
cissysaidso (2:06:34 PM): It sounds like it. Archer seems really sweet, by the way.
bunsofsteelbear (2:07:34 PM): Yeah he's a good kid. Spoilt to death.
cissysaidso (2:08:16 PM): Those are the best kind, Speaking of which, Ric bought me a Prada diaper bag for Christmas.*laughs*
bunsofsteelbear (2:08:42 PM): A prada diaper bag? God this is already a designer baby
cissysaidso (2:09:51 PM): *laughs* I thought it was sweet. And very me, I guess.
bunsofsteelbear (2:10:02 PM): Yeah I suppose it is
cissysaidso (2:10:23 PM): Did you... tell anyone yet?
bunsofsteelbear (2:11:02 PM): No I didn't
cissysaidso (2:11:51 PM): Okay. Yeah, I didn't say anything to anyone either. Well, to Archer. And I haven't talked to Wes either, not since before I even talked to you.
bunsofsteelbear (2:12:15 PM): It's ok I've told him
cissysaidso (2:13:07 PM): How did he... react?
bunsofsteelbear (2:13:14 PM): Oh you know, how only Wesley can
cissysaidso (2:13:59 PM): That good, eh? *laughs softly* I'm glad you're getting to spend some time with your son.
bunsofsteelbear (2:15:06 PM): Yeah it's great to see him again. *chuckles* He's already grown like five inches since I last saw him it's crazy.
cissysaidso (2:15:33 PM): Kids do that! Or so I've been told. I guess I'll find out.
bunsofsteelbear (2:16:10 PM): Yeah. Treasure the baby years, they're over too quickly
cissysaidso (2:16:59 PM): I miss you. It's been really boring here. I should have gone ahead and gone to Chicago.
bunsofsteelbear (2:18:56 PM): Don't miss me too much. Anyway I'm coming home soon, like... the day after Christmas day. *quietly* Jennifer's talking about bringing Archer back down to Boston for the rest of the holidays.
cissysaidso (2:20:22 PM): I can't help it. I miss you when you're here too, but it's different then because I can at least go see you if I want to, but I can't when you're all the way over there. *smiles* So you'll be back for New Years?
bunsofsteelbear (2:20:51 PM): *sounds quiet still.* Yeah I will....
cissysaidso (2:21:52 PM): Is something wrong?
bunsofsteelbear (2:22:02 PM): No, no....
cissysaidso (2:22:14 PM): Are you sure?
bunsofsteelbear (2:22:36 PM): Yeah, seriously.... I mean I can't talk much right now...
cissysaidso (2:22:53 PM): Oh, ok...
cissysaidso (2:23:35 PM): Are you and Jennifer fighting or something?
bunsofsteelbear (2:24:10 PM): Ahm no, no. But it's not far off. There's only so much I can take you know? *woman's voice speaking in background, followed by Archer's voice*
cissysaidso (2:24:55 PM): Why don't you call me later? When you can talk?
bunsofsteelbear (2:26:04 PM): That'll be like, never. Just a second. *receiver is muffled. his voice + a woman's exchanging a heated conversation. Jonah comes back on, still speaking* go and get it then, I'm busy here....
cissysaidso (2:27:25 PM): Okay. *waits* They have to sleep sometime. Do you need to go now?
bunsofsteelbear (2:29:28 PM): No I don't need to go now.
cissysaidso (2:30:12 PM): Okay. So... what'cha wearin'? *giggles*
bunsofsteelbear (2:30:38 PM): *laughs* you tryin to get me in trouble?
cissysaidso (2:31:09 PM): I AM trouble. All the way around.
bunsofsteelbear (2:31:17 PM): Tell me about it. No argumetns from me
cissysaidso (2:31:53 PM): I just wanted to make you smile. You're very handsome when you smile.
bunsofsteelbear (2:34:14 PM): Whhy thank you very much. You sure know how to make a man feel special
cissysaidso (2:35:34 PM): You are special. And thank you, by the way. For the gifts. I love them both. Our baby's gonna be a total rockstar.
bunsofsteelbear (2:35:53 PM): I know right? He's gonna have an ace CD collection
cissysaidso (2:37:38 PM): Did you know that right now, as we speak, he or she is growing fingers and a nose? Isn't that amazing?
bunsofsteelbear (2:38:42 PM): You been reading your baby books again?
cissysaidso (2:39:59 PM): Fisher bought me two new ones for Christmas. Oh! And I can get an ultrasound any time now. But I thought I would wait until you can go with me. If you want.
bunsofsteelbear (2:40:08 PM): Alright sounds good
cissysaidso (2:41:11 PM): I'm really glad that the baby is yours.
bunsofsteelbear (2:41:28 PM): *laughs* I'm flattered
cissysaidso (2:42:08 PM): You should be. I wouldn't put my figure at risk for just anyone.
bunsofsteelbear (2:43:33 PM): Ha! Oh yeah, slimline Celia
cissysaidso (2:44:20 PM): Will you still want me even when I'm fat?
bunsofsteelbear (2:44:38 PM): Hell if you keep some of the pounds I won't care
cissysaidso (2:45:27 PM): I could probably use a few, yeah. I've already gained some and everyone keeps telling me how good I look.
bunsofsteelbear (2:45:35 PM): You look great.
cissysaidso (2:46:03 PM): Thank you.
bunsofsteelbear (2:46:58 PM): *female in the background: You got a twinkie in Boston, then Jonah?*
cissysaidso (2:47:34 PM): Did she just call me a twinkie?
bunsofsteelbear (2:48:15 PM): .....excuse me... *calling to her* Yeah actually. She's hot. Young. Blonde. Like you when you were twenty-two.
cissysaidso (2:49:32 PM): Oooohhh. *giggles* Be nice, Jonah. Don't let her ruin things for Archer.
bunsofsteelbear (2:50:25 PM): *female: you buy her?* No. I've moved on to women with standards.
cissysaidso (2:51:34 PM): Wow. Someone's bitter.
bunsofsteelbear (2:51:52 PM): *sound of door shutting* Private now. Who's bitter?
cissysaidso (2:52:06 PM): She is, obviously.
bunsofsteelbear (2:52:17 PM): Yeah she likes to keep me miserable
cissysaidso (2:53:10 PM): Well, she can try but I'm gonna make you so happy that miserable won't even exist in your vocabulary.
bunsofsteelbear (2:53:30 PM): *chuckles* I look forward to it
cissysaidso (2:53:51 PM): You should! I keep you all young and virile!
bunsofsteelbear (2:54:20 PM): *pauses*.... so....
cissysaidso (2:55:09 PM): So.... do you miss me?
bunsofsteelbear (2:55:49 PM): Actually I kinda do
cissysaidso (2:56:10 PM): Only kinda? *laughs* You're going to make me pout!
bunsofsteelbear (2:57:24 PM): Don't pout.... I'll have to kiss it... *laughs* ah jeez
cissysaidso (2:58:25 PM): Maybe that's the point... *giggles*
cissysaidso (3:00:08 PM): I've missed your kisses.
bunsofsteelbear (3:00:23 PM): Yeah... *pause*.... me too
cissysaidso (3:02:00 PM): And I miss falling asleep with you and waking up beside you and... lots of other things too.
bunsofsteelbear (3:02:51 PM): *hums in agreement. then pauses* Would it be crass of me to say I missed sleeping with you?
cissysaidso (3:05:33 PM): No. Would it be crass of me to say that I miss the way my skin reacts when you touch me and the way you seem to make my heart beat faster and slower all at the same time and the butterflies that flutter around in the pit of my stomach when you look at me in that one particular way when I just know that you want to do very bad things with me.
bunsofsteelbear (3:08:06 PM): ......no. That'd be.. *clears throat* That'd be a very good thing tosay
cissysaidso (3:10:16 PM): Oh yeah? Well what if I said that I miss being exhausted in your arms, completely naked and slick with sweat, trembling all over, unable to think about anything other than how much I want you again?
bunsofsteelbear (3:11:45 PM): .....okay
cissysaidso (3:13:45 PM): Or that I miss how well your body fits with mine and nearly setting the sheets on fire and causing the people in the hotel room next door to have to change rooms because I can't stop moaning? Would that be too crass? Would I be taking things too far then?
bunsofsteelbear is available (4:03:07 PM)
bunsofsteelbear (4:06:35 PM): ....are you trying to give me a heart attack?
cissysaidso (4:09:52 PM): No, of course not. Just, you know, trying to make sure I'm the first person you wanna see when you get back home.
bunsofsteelbear (4:10:12 PM): You were before you even started that. I was actually gonna say something along the same lines
cissysaidso (4:10:54 PM): Distance makes the heart grow fonder?
bunsofsteelbear (4:12:02 PM): Not really. I just had a long time to think on the way up here
bunsofsteelbear (4:12:19 PM): *sighs* i think maybe if I just jump back in I'll figure it out...
cissysaidso (4:13:57 PM): If that's what you want. Just know, Jonah, I'm willing to give you whatever time you need even if it doesn't always seem that way. It's just... hard not to want you so much that it makes me feel a little crazy.
bunsofsteelbear (4:14:12 PM): *hesitant pause* I know the feeling
cissysaidso (4:15:38 PM): So you do still want me... Good to know. *giggles*
bunsofsteelbear (4:17:36 PM): Don't push it
cissysaidso (4:17:54 PM): *laughs* But I gotta!
bunsofsteelbear (4:18:07 PM): Seriously.
cissysaidso (4:18:45 PM): I'm not pushing. I'm just happy. That's a strange sort of feeling for me.
bunsofsteelbear (4:19:06 PM): I suppose you're right.... I might have to just... see how itgoes
cissysaidso (4:22:01 PM): Like I said, whatever you wanna do, Jonah, or not do, is fine by me just as long as I get to spend time with you. I'd be content to just eat Fruit Loops and watch cartoons if that's what you wanted to do. But that doesn't mean that I'm not going to miss all the things I said that I miss still.
bunsofsteelbear is available (5:55:58 PM)
bunsofsteelbear (5:04:29 PM): Oooh.... fruit loops
cissysaidso (5:07:21 PM): *laughs* You like the sound of that, huh?
bunsofsteelbear (5:07:40 PM): Yeah I'm really hungry, the folks aren't making dinner for another hour
cissysaidso (5:09:37 PM): Me too now that I brought that up. I'm gonna have to go raid the kitchen.
bunsofsteelbear (5:09:54 PM): Oh well
bunsofsteelbear (5:10:15 PM): Good luck with that. If I raided the kitchen I'd be chased out with Jenny's broomstick
cissysaidso (5:11:41 PM): Seriously, what is her damage? I mean, she's not with you, is happy with this other guy, so why's she giving you such a hard time about meeting someone else?
bunsofsteelbear (5:12:42 PM): Because she doesn't want to be with someone else. She wants me to wallow for the rest of my life and miss her, so she still, in a way, has a hold on me despite what she did to me. She wants to feel powerful
cissysaidso (5:13:28 PM): Well she's just gonna have to get over that. Her loss equals my gain.
bunsofsteelbear (5:13:37 PM): Yeah i guess that's true
cissysaidso (5:15:43 PM): Just... try to play nice so that Archer gets to come out. I really wanna meet him.
bunsofsteelbear is idle (5:35:26 PM)
bunsofsteelbear (6:00:51 PM): He'll be coming
cissysaidso (6:01:34 PM): Good. Do you think he'll be excited about being a big brother?
bunsofsteelbear (6:01:41 PM): I'm not sure actually.
cissysaidso (6:02:20 PM): I hope so.
bunsofsteelbear (6:02:54 PM): *sighs* It's difficult. His life is here. His... sibling's life will probably be in Boston. He might not bond with him.
cissysaidso (6:03:38 PM): That part does suck...
bunsofsteelbear (6:06:36 PM): Yeah.
cissysaidso (6:07:46 PM): I'm sorry.
bunsofsteelbear (6:08:00 PM): Don't be. This is just... being here is weird.
cissysaidso (6:08:17 PM): Weird how?
bunsofsteelbear (6:09:01 PM): Seeing Jennifer with Dan. How Archer is with him... it's like... he's forgetting me. And I'm getting a new life in Boston, a new kid...
cissysaidso (6:09:40 PM): He's never gonna forget you. You're his dad, no matter what.
bunsofsteelbear (6:10:00 PM): Yeah but he's gonna forget me being around so often
cissysaidso (6:12:05 PM): Fight for joint custody then. You could at least get summers and every other holiday.
bunsofsteelbear (6:21:38 PM): Maybe
cissysaidso (6:25:40 PM): Just think about it, okay?
bunsofsteelbear (6:25:46 PM): Yeah I will.
cissysaidso (6:27:55 PM): Okay. Good.
cissysaidso (6:57:37 PM): So I should probably let you go. You'll be sitting down to dinner soon and I don't want to keep you from Archer while you have time with him I just... wanted to hear your voice.
bunsofsteelbear (6:58:07 PM): *obviously smiling* well... call again okay?
bunsofsteelbear (6:58:16 PM): I've been stuck in a white room with no TV
cissysaidso (6:58:36 PM): Nuh uh. You call me next time.
bunsofsteelbear (6:58:59 PM): Well I might. I might not.
cissysaidso (6:59:40 PM): Awww, pouting again!
bunsofsteelbear (7:00:02 PM): *chuckles*
cissysaidso (7:00:20 PM): Don't laugh at me. I might cry.
bunsofsteelbear (7:00:57 PM): Tell me something that's new.
cissysaidso (7:01:21 PM): Hmm. I can't think of anything...
bunsofsteelbear (7:01:32 PM): I was being sarcastic
cissysaidso (7:01:50 PM): I know
cissysaidso (7:02:02 PM): Tell me something new. *laughs*
bunsofsteelbear (7:02:24 PM): *chuckles* Alright you scoundrel
cissysaidso (7:02:32 PM): You like it.
bunsofsteelbear (7:03:02 PM): That's true
cissysaidso (7:04:06 PM): I miss you. I know I already said that like five times but... I do.
bunsofsteelbear (7:04:35 PM): I know...
cissysaidso (7:04:47 PM): Call me? Please?
bunsofsteelbear (7:05:03 PM): I will do, when I'm in my room
cissysaidso (7:05:23 PM): Okay. Have a nice time until then.
bunsofsteelbear (7:05:49 PM): I'll try
cissysaidso (7:06:43 PM): Bye.
bunsofsteelbear (7:06:50 PM): Bye.